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Responsible, nice guy looking for a sweet girl

I am really a pretty simple guy. One of my biggest passions is for adventure. I love mountain climbing, hiking, camping, fishing, or pretty much any thing outdoors. In fact I'd really love to become an expert paraglider in the future, once I have some more money. I also love to travel, and I've been to many countries around the world. I am a combat veteran and recently discharged from the military. As far as my personality, I'm extremely laid back. I have a huge passion for people being treated with justice and if I see someone hurting or abusing a woman (or anyone for that matter) I'll step in and take the 'necessary measures' to stop it. I guess that's why I joined the military too. I also really have a heart toward poor and homeless people and really enjoy helping them out when I can. That's what I've found really satisfies you, is to help someone else out when they cannot help themselves. I'm a Christian, and I would really be looking for a girl who believes in Christ and puts him first in her life. I'm certainly not perfect, but I know that God is really at work in my life, although I can be pretty stubborn to him changing me sometimes. I guess all around. I'm both a pretty normal guy, but also very unusual. I find that most of my peers haven't done the things I've done in my life and I often feel out of my element around them. It was this and other things that led me to believe that I very probably have asperger's. I really did not want to believe that was the case but after doing some research on it there were so many people with AS who sounded like they were telling my life story. I've never actually had a specialist diagnose me, but to me it really doesn't make any difference, it's not like it would change me either way. Anyway, I was kind of excited to find out about this site and although I really don't expect too much, it can't hurt to put myself out there and see what happens.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildAverage
Height180 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

SpecialtyTransportation
Employment StatusStudent
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleRetail

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, Reality shows
Favorite movies typesAction, Drama, Documentary, Thriller
Music typesCountry, Rock, Latin
Reading selectionBiography, History, Political, Religious
HobbiesExercising, Reading, Music, Movies, Family, Photography, Religion, spirituality, Travel, Camping, Fishing, Motorcycles, Hunting

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorReserved
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Quiet one
Sense of humorDry / sarcastic
My great timeHanging out with friends, The movies, Relaxing, Reading a book
Always wanted to trySurfing, I lived in southern California for a few years and I regret that I never tried it. I think it would be a lot of fun!

Views

Political viewsConservative
ReligionBaptist
Attend religious servicesOnce a week
Goal in lifeI have a few different options, but I would like to get out of the US eventually and do some kind of service, maybe in a third world country. I'd also like to have a family and be good husband/father.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerThat's pretty hard to say. I suppose that I just know someone I like when I see them. Number one quality is probably humility. I find it really attractive when a women has a quiet, confident personality. I also don't mean to be shallow in the least bit, but I'd honestly have to say that I'd really be looking for someone that I'm physically attracted to, and someone who is attracted to me. I am in pretty decent shape and would really like to meet someone who enjoys working out and staying in shape. Lastly, I would say that the most important thing I look for in a women in faith in Christ, namely, that you don't try and make yourself good enough for God, but you trust Jesus and his death and resurrection to reconcile you to God.
On the first dateWhatever we're both comfortable with probably. There's certain things that I suck at, like dancing, for example, so that would be out. I'm somewhat of a caffeine addict so maybe just hanging out at starbucks and talking would be cool. I guess that a movie or bowling would be fine too. I'm really down for anything, as long as it's not going to push you (or me) too far out of the comfort zone